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Exceptionally well written and thorough critique of the Irish MoU and similar activist statements! One thing I would emphasize to a greater degree than Dr. van Zyl did is that the optimal therapeutic strategy with most adolescents is to not make too big of a deal about sudden announcements that "I am gay" or "I am nonbinary." Focusing too much attention on adolescent fad identities can lead kids to think that these statements and behaviors are opposed by the therapist and other adult authorities, which results in intensification of the behaviors. For most teens and young adults it is normal nowadays to experiment with sexual preferences and expressions of femininity/masculinity, and it is best for therapists to not appear overly invested in how the exploration turns out.

With kids who are more troubled, who have other signiicant psych issues or neurodevelopmental disorders, I agree with all of Dr. Zyl's recommendations.

Really excellent article!

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